Lord, take away any hardness in my heart

I will sprinkle clean water upon you
to cleanse you from all your impurities,
and from all your idols I will cleanse you.
 
I will give you a new heart
and place a new spirit within you,
taking from your bodies your stony hearts
and giving you natural hearts.
 
I will put my spirit within you
and make you live by my statutes,
careful to observe my decrees.
Ezekiel 36:25-27
      

Deny yourself of all in all

To reach satisfaction in all, desire its possession in nothing.
To come to possession in all, desire the possession of nothing.
To arrive at being all, desire to be nothing.
To come to the knowledge of all, desire the knowledge of nothing.

To come to the pleasure you have not,
      you must go by the way in which you enjoy not.
To come to the knowledge you have not,
      you must go by the way in which you know not.
To come to the possession you have not,
      you must go by the way in which you possess not.
To come by the what you are not,
      you must go by a way in which you are not.

When you turn toward something,
      you cease to cast yourself upon the all.
For to go from all to the all,
      you must deny yourself of all in all.
And when you come to the possession of the all,
      you must possess it without wanting anything.
Because if you desire to have something in all,
      your treasure in God is not purely your all.

-- John of the Cross, "The Ascent of Mount Carmel"
     

Lord, that I may live as you love

Do to no one what you yourself dislike.
Give to the hungry some of your bread, 
and to the naked some of your clothing. 
  
Seek counsel from every wise man. 
At all times bless the Lord God, 
and ask him to make all your paths straight 
      and to grant success to all your endeavors and plans.

Tobit 4:15a, 16a, 18a, 19
  

Lord, help me to be honest about myself

He also told them a parable:
‘Can a blind person guide a blind person?
Will not both fall into a pit?

A disciple is not above the teacher,
but everyone who is fully qualified will be like the teacher.

Why do you see the speck in your neighbour’s eye,
but do not notice the log in your own eye?
Or how can you say to your neighbour,
“Friend, let me take out the speck in your eye”,
when you yourself do not see the log in your own eye?

You hypocrite,
first take the log out of your own eye,
and then you will see clearly
to take the speck out of your neighbour’s eye.
  Luke 6:39-42 NRSV